Intelligent Intimacy
(Stop performing. Start connecting.)
Build the skills that turn intimacy into true intelligence,
in boardrooms and bedrooms alike.
Upcoming Events
Intelligent Intimacy with Maria
Naked Sisterhood - Women's Circle
Intelligent Intimacy Mixed Circle
Intelligent Intimacy: Meet Maria (Online)
Tuesday, September 16th, 18:30 CET, live on Zoom (recording available after)
Online Workshop: Introduction to Intelligent Intimacy
60-minute talk + 30-minute Q&A
Recording available afterward
Who it's for
Men who want to deepen their presence and clarity in intimacy, women interested in understanding this work, and anyone curious about exploring intimacy as a field of intelligence rather than performance.
What you'll explore
- The difference between presence and performance in intimacy
- Consent as clarity: why clear agreements create freedom
- How to lead yourself first before leading another in intimacy
- What makes a container safe and alive instead of flat or performative
Brasov - 21 September Mixed Circle
Conscious Relating: Beyond Love, Into Truth | Intelligent Intimacy Mixed Circle
17:00 to 20:00
Love is not enough. Real relationships are built on taking care of each other's best interest-partners, colleagues, children, even your own body.
This curated event is an immersive journey into intimacy, trust, and boundaries. Expect blindfolded exploration, movement, whispers, secrets, touch, and radical honesty-all held in a safe, guided space.
- Practice radical honesty and consent
- Explore touch and movement with intention
- Dance, rest, and connect beyond masks
- Step into the art of conscious relating
Consent at every step. Transformation guaranteed.
Brasov - 21 September Women's Circle
Naked Sisterhood - Women's Circle (morning)
11:00 to 14:00
Why "Naked Sisterhood"
Because we are here to strip away everything that is not truly us.
Naked means removing the masks, roles, and performances that have kept us small - intellectually, emotionally, sexually, spiritually. It is about being radically honest and fully seen without apology.
It also invites us to reclaim the body itself. Some women choose to be literally naked, not for display, but as an act of liberation - standing unclothed without having to perform for patriarchal desire or hide in shame. Here, the gaze is not consuming but healing - received like a mother's love: unconditional, dignifying, and deeply restorative.
In Naked Sisterhood, we are no longer objects of comparison, competition, or consumption. We are whole women, meeting as equals, honoring one another's truth, and remembering that nothing about us needs to be hidden to be worthy.
What clients say
"Maria's energy is strong and even online meetings her energy is penetrating, making me feel like we are in the same room. I have never experienced such presence before."
Clara, Spain
"What an experience! I worked with Maria through BreathWork and self-therapy. During the treatments my breath calmed, my mind stilled, and I felt a unified energy flowing through me. Maria's presence made me feel safe enough to surrender, release, and transform."
Sabine, Germany
"With Maria, I discovered the kind of presence I had only read about. Her sessions brought me back into my body and helped me release layers of fear and doubt. What touched me most was her ability to balance fierce clarity with maternal compassion - I felt guided, not judged."
Ananya, India
"Before, during and after the sessions with Maria I felt safety and trust. I felt like I came to someone that knew what she was doing and that made me feel completely at ease. During the treatments, it was like drifting to another dimension. I was able to let go of all thoughts and was more present in my body."
Ingrid, Norway
"Energy healing is what I used to dismiss as quack medicine… until meeting Maria. She helped me clear negative energies, realign my goals, and shift my perspective on life. Her greatest gift is her ability to listen deeply and create a safe aura where secrets can be shared without fear."
Amelia, UK
"To me, the integrative healing sessions with Maria were a beautiful, divine and peaceful experience. I felt streams of energy flowing throughout my body and an increased clarity of mind. Maria's presence was loving, safe and uniquely feminine. I became more centered, my lifeforce spread through my being, and my sexual energy opened so I could finally relax into conceiving a child."
Giulia, Italy
"I did combined BreathWork and energy healing with Maria and cannot say enough how much I recommend her treatments. She is highly intuitive, powerful yet gentle, and completely embodied as a feminine healer. I always feel safe and supported in her presence. My body relaxed, my mind calmed, and she always knew which areas required healing."
Elena, Romania
"Maria's sessions are a laboratory for intimacy. With her, emotions become art: fear, delight, ecstasy, safety, all unfolding within clear boundaries. I left every session feeling lighter, more alive, and more in love with myself."
Camila, Brazil
Frequently Asked Questions
About Maria
Maria Hoier is the founder of Intelligent Intimacy, a singer and writer, and a pioneer in integrating psychology, somatic practice, and archetypal frameworks into modern relational development. With a background in Eastern medicine, psychology, and adult human development, she has spent over two decades weaving together science, myth, and lived experience to guide individuals and groups into deeper intimacy, integrity, and embodied connection. Trauma-informed, academically grounded, and intuitively led, Maria merges intellectual depth with emotional accessibility. She creates spaces where vulnerability, erotic intelligence, and conscious power can coexist, bringing a rare capacity to hold both the psychological and the spiritual dimensions of intimacy. Her mission is to restore intimacy as a field of intelligence-one that can transform relationships, leadership, and the systems we live in.
Why this work
Maria's containers combine honest self-inquiry, clean boundaries, and simple embodied practices. Men and women learn skills they can apply in boardrooms and bedrooms alike: nervous-system steadiness, direct communication, and sovereign desire. The tone is intelligent, warm, and safe.
